Attitude!!! how important is this word?

i have seen many people use this word in day to day life.. he/she doesn’t like my attitude or i don't like his/her attitude... some people consider themselves very smart, who decide about someone’s attitude within 5 min. without taking the pains or time to understand the person..

this what i have seen in my life , but i have never taken this word "Attitude" seriously. . because it is not my job to analysis someone else’s character or behaviour..

But today i wish to know more about this and why people use this word, in spite the fact that it hurts quite some people, I also get upset when a person says that you have a bla bla attitude, i dont like it ...i get upset because that very person is not just my good friend but is actually best friend ... so i started pondering about this word and me, I asked myself, am I really bad? ? ?

Attitude: Attitude means one's mental position relative to something - a way of behaving or thinking. . .

But whatever is positive is for someone may be negative to someone else!!

So does that mean, the person has a bad attitude?

I say the answer to that would be no.

I found a very nice one liner, "life is all about 10 percent what happens to us and 90 percent how we react to those happenings."

What if, a person's present reaction is based on his past experience?… imagine, in this situation, someone else judges this person’s current reaction, without knowing the reason behind it…and finally makes up his mind and comments on his attitude… how inconsiderate…

i fail to understand this… how some people tend to judge someone else’s attitude…

this word is complicated, because this word is a sum total of behaviour/ mental setup/ temperament/ likes and dislikes…..

Strange how when our likes match, we tend to have a good attitude and otherwise a bad one in the eyes of a total stranger…..

Life is Drama.. Your Actor and script writer is God

Everyone’s life is like a drama in which they play a role of an Actor/ Hero. The Drama is a Hit when the script is good , but some actor/hero don't care about the script, they believe in there own ability to make the drama, a super hit.

So don't worry about your life’s script whatever it is ... give your best in each moment of life, enjoy your role and make your drama a big hit.

one thought

"direction always change on turn but.. destination remains same "

Love aaj kaal

last Sunday i have seen "love aaj kaal" recent bollywood movie . movie topic is good but many people don't like that and saif and deepika acting is not that much high standard ...

story is moving all around today's love , what is love for new generation and how they forget real emotions under the name of practical life ,career, and all else ...
and its true that today while running behind the career and dreams we avoid emotions or not understand feelings....

one good song - Maula Muuh Na Modna (Zinda)

one beautiful song from bollywood movie "Zinda "
I am putting lyrics here if you got chance then listen this song ,
this is written by Vishal Dadlani


(siyaahi mein ghul gayaa andheron mein dhul gayaa
chhod gayi roshani ve rabba tu naa chhodanaa
maulaa muuh naa modanna tu mujhase muuh naa modanaa - 2) - 2

pal pal raag meraa naam teraa ek chiraag hai
teri paak nazaron mein meri chaadar bedaag hai
toote khilaune ko ab kyaa aur todanaa
maulaa muuh naa modanna tu mujhase muuh naa modanaa - 2

khud ko karke tere hi hawaale chal rahaa hoon main
bujhate bujhate teri rehmaton se jal rahaa hoo main
sikhaa andheronse maine haath jodanaa
maulaa muuh naa modanna tu mujhase muuh naa modanaa - 2

siyaahi mein ghul gayaa andheron mein dhul gayaa
chhod gayi roshani ve rabba tu naa chhodanaa
maulaa muuh naa modanna tu mujhase muuh naa modanaa - 2

--Vishal Dadlani

hmm..... little bit senti

I want to go back

one good composition which send me back in life...........

I want to go back to the time when "Innocence" was "Natural",
when "Getin high" meant "On a swing",
when "Drinkin" meant "Rasna Orange",
when"Dad" was d only "Hero",
when "Love" was "Mom's hug",
when "Dad's shoulder" was the "The highest place on earth",
when your "Worst enemies" were "your siblings",
when the only thing that cud "Hurt" were "Bleeding knees",
when the only things "Broken" were "Toys",
and when "Goodbyes" only meant "Till tomorrow"!
Life has changd a lot.. Isnt it??

again i dont know the writer of this ....

but its too good so share here ..............

one thought

"The world is not a parking place;
it is a racetrack. Keep on moving. No matter when and where you start,
you can reach your goal and make a new record!"


i just read this thought in morning as thought of the day, and i really like this thought . who is written this i don't know but its really motivating and based on real fact , so feel somewhere near to heart .

our life today really become racetrack no matter where and when we start race ...!!!

Rain clouds

View near my office .. one quick shoot..

Tag:ABC Tag

Hi , i am playing this game first and last time . its good game .. to know people, friends but .. i don't like to write on me
my friend Megha tagged me in this game. its very interesting when i was reading her post
when i started answering the same question its become fun for me ..

Megha, i have answered all the questions and all the answers are true....... kyu ki main jhooot nahi bolta.. [:)]

1. A – Available/Single? Single
2. B – Best friend? ani,mangya,rush
3. C – Cake or Pie? Cake...Chocolate
4. D – Drink of choice? A cup of Tea
5. E – Essential item you use every day? laptop,net,my cards
6. F – Favorite colour? blue
7. G – Gummy Bears Or Worms? None
8. H – Hometown? Roha
9. I – Indulgence? Reading, Photography, Writing, drawing,strategy games,
10. J – January or February? January...... new plans new year first month .. eheh
11. K – Kids & their name? Don't have any.
12. L – Life is incomplete without? My Family, art,dreams
13. M – Marriage date? hmmmm.. still not
14. N – Number of siblings? one
15. O – Oranges or Apples? oranges
16. P – Phobias/Fears? none
17. Q – Quote for today? enjoy each moment of life
18. R – Reason to smile? Family, success,win,smile on others face
19. S – Season? Rainy season.
20. T – Tag 3 People? Yes
21. U – Unknown fact about me? I am good in sports
22. V – Vegetable you don’t like? Karela
23. W – Worst habit? chatting
24. X – X-rays you’ve had? no.
25. Y – Your favorite food? Indian food, sea food.
26. Z – Zodiac sign? Virgo


I am tagging Manpreet,Priti,mausami

Loneliness........

Loneliness........ Loneliness...........Loneliness.................
one emotion of Loneliness suddenly send you thousands of miles from your happiness,
that thought that one emotion send you in different world , that doesn't matter whether you are happy enjoying current moment .. enjoying success... or in the different mode of life but one thought.. that suddenly feel you alone..... you become desperate for that emotion. you loose your current motion and life went into different mode of emotion...

That emotion may be your love.. your dream.. your attachment with anything but it is true that for that thought you feel alone in this world even though you are in thousand of peoples that's Loneliness.............
Loneliness......... which change your life .
Loneliness.... which always talk with your mind..... reached to the your mind

and like this moment in my life.......

21st century city navi mumbai under water

after the one day heavy rain , 21 st century city "Navi mumbai " underwater

IT park's in mhape suffering this while they are giving most revenue to govt. what they are getting .. nothing.....















MBP road are underwater
















Koparkhairane also suffer the same issue































Now waiting for 26 July what will be there ??

one good composition -Hridayaat Spandanana

one the best composition

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